NLP

Neuro-Lingustic-Programming

Breakthrough and Increase your Comfort Zone +/- 10%

Get over the bad feeling --- afraid of failure

Upgrade self confident and internal value

How to increase self confident
  Increase Knowledge, Training and Practicing - Lack of experience and professional abilities
  Mastering of Focusing onto Positive Attitudes - Failure experience
  Remove the believing of self-limitation

Good Believing inspire Potential Ability
Potential Ability driving Individual Actions
Individual Actions produce Good Results

Transformation towards a subject Definition - the way you define an incident will directly influence your attitudes which will drive yours actions react onto that incident

Failure and being rejected is indeed your internal feeling, that feeling make your emotion arised

When people say NO to you, the way you define the NO, direct impact our attitude, feeling, emotional, and action

There is no single definition for an incident, it is very much depends on self judgement